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mini-rant

OK, mini-rant mode on.

Sarah asked me to ring her this evening when I spoek to her at work earlier. Basically to sort out tomorrow's meet-up and exchange of gifts.

I just rang her and she was really offish with me because she had a friend over. Now I know nothing is going on between her and him but the way she behaved on the phone (clipped answers, not saying any times to make it sound like we were arranging to meet-up, just yes, no, maybe...) really pissed me off. It sounds (to me) like she's told her friends that we're finished for good (which we probably are anyway) but she doesn't want them to know she's actually still chatting, getting along with and seeing me.

It just really fired me up the wrong way, especially as we'd actually been getting along a lot better in the last couple of days.

I wish I felt better.... then at least I'd be able to indulge in one of my listed interests (yes the 'too much southern comfort' one ;p). F**K. Damn. Sh*t. C**t.

:(

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kittensandsteam
Dec. 22nd, 2004 08:16 pm (UTC)
*hugs*
Maybe she's just really busy or stressing about something.
Or maybe she has a friend over that doesn't like you and she doesn't want hassle from him or something.
Why don't you text her and ask her what time and place to meet up tomorrow?
Just ask her that and I'm sure she'll reply.
Are you on msn? If you want to chat I'm happy to keep you company.
confusedart@hotmail.com just like ages ago.
gypseymission
Dec. 22nd, 2004 08:29 pm (UTC)
Dude. Been there, felt what you are feeling. You are right to be feeling afronted. I'm sorry you are going through this, I really am. The only thing I can say is that Whiskey in milk is a well known cold and flu cure. Of course they don't say exactly how much whiskey to how much milk. Just an idea ;-)
painted_bird
Dec. 22nd, 2004 09:45 pm (UTC)
People are funny, unpredictable creatures.. I'm damned if I can work them out. Get a cat. :)
corpsie
Dec. 22nd, 2004 09:58 pm (UTC)
I know (next to) nothing about the situation. I have MSN if you feel like ranting to a semi-impartial observer.
gabby2600
Dec. 23rd, 2004 01:31 am (UTC)
I know that feeling, but i had the feeling over a friend who tred to fuck me over and destroy my company. Before I knew the extend of he back stabbing, everytimes I talked to him I got one word answers and grunts.

The big knife in the back was I gave this friend a roof over his head and fed him for 6 months. Basically he became a Starfucker, and tried to get rid of all of Storms closest friends in order to be her best friend. Anyone who was a threat to he Starfucker stats got slandered and shit slung at them.

I have also had Ex's do the same. It make sme feel Like I have 'Walk all ove me' on my forehead.

gabby2600
Dec. 23rd, 2004 01:32 am (UTC)
P.S. You can catch me on most messengers, see my info for them, and we can rant together for a bit.

gabby
the_alleycat
Dec. 23rd, 2004 02:40 am (UTC)
It's a sad fact that [proper] ex's never make sense... with all the will in the world, it remains true. I guess in a way that's why they become ex's, because on some level the communication was wonky... Or not, i'm just pissed of with my gf right now and i may have cahnged my [mercurial] mind later.

And although we don't know each other well, you have my eempathy.
angusabranson
Dec. 23rd, 2004 09:53 am (UTC)
I actually get along incredibly well with two of my ex's (my last two in fact) so I'm finding this a renewed experience I'd manage to forget about from previous relationships.

I found out why she was clipped last night though. She rang, very apologetically, this morning as she received a couple of texts I sent her last night. She'd basically drank a bottle of wine and was a tad stoned. Not great but at least I can now understand :p
cholten99
Dec. 23rd, 2004 01:09 pm (UTC)

> which we probably are anyway

Do I need to go back and did out the previous post where you said something like "I think we've broken up for good this time, at least I hope so". Hardest question is - do you know what you want...? *hug*

I still get on really well with all my ex's (apart from the one that for no good reason won't speak to me) although living with the latest one while still really cool since she's such a good friend is going to really complicate things if/when I get involved with someone else...
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