Her User name is melissamilitelo
It's actually been quite an odd few days in LJ-land as a number of my older 'real-life' friends (whom I've known for 8-10 years +) have been getting Live Journals recently. Apart from Melissa I've also had the following "oldsters" appear recently:
Andy Peregrine corone
Andy O'Hara dodgyhoodoo
Toos Holman weaselbitch
It's nice to keep in touch with old friends as well as new as I'm sure ukmonty would agree. ukmonty still wins the award for being the oldest friend I've had (poor fellow). It has indeed been many, many, painstaking years......
Oh, I also discovered that Adrienne (another of the "oldsters" ;p) has a LJ too over at gothglitz . You discover someone new all the time round here :-p