but watch out... you're willing to lie to your mate to protect them, a
typical compassionate pot hole - you'd do anything to prevent them from
getting hurt right? (And lets face it having them upset at us doesn't
help any either...)

Just becareful - some people will lie to protect their loved ones - and
end up protecting them from ever knowing who you really are. That's not
what you want - you should be finding someone who can love you for who
you are and accept all the parts of you with out having to lie about
any of them =/ And even that's something you can live with - If you're
doing things you can't tell your loved one about anyway... you're not
quite as good a person as you think you are =/

Becareful! That's all - end of sermon =)

Much love to you and good luck =)

Gabriel Night

Oh - just so you don't go off wondering - the first question? the one
about monogamous cultures? the answer is 16% of recorded cultures have
been monogamous - 84% have been non monogamous! how about that? =)