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Well that's it.

Rosie has been fully packed and has hit the road.

Goodbye girl. Speak to you soon and good luck with your new life in Leicester and hope to see you soon.

I feel shattered. Emotionally and physically after lugging boxes all afternoon/evening.

I hate break ups but break ups when living with your partner are even harder as a) you have to watch them leave (if they are the one who moves which in my case has always been the way as they've moved out of London after the split) and b) the place just feels so empty afterwards.

They're also harder because to live together is a big commitment and your feelings are even closer than just dating.

Anyway, I need an early night.

I'll try and keep the teenage angst off LJ as much as possible. Thanks for putting up with me for the last couple of weeks. Night night fair readers.


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Jul. 11th, 2007 10:41 pm (UTC)
(hugs) Sympathy.
Jul. 11th, 2007 11:07 pm (UTC)

Hey, LJ is made for angst!

Jeez, read my journal and you'll learn that.

/emo kid
Jul. 11th, 2007 11:08 pm (UTC)
ack, i hardly know you but i want to give you a big hug anyway... look after yourself. and let other people look after you too xx
Jul. 11th, 2007 11:31 pm (UTC)
Mate, hate to say it but been there done that. girl with 6 years living together ended without a bye or leave. however, recently back together after a 3 year absence.

Never say never...
Jul. 12th, 2007 12:33 am (UTC)
Share the angst 'round as much as you need to, I say. It's not like we're forced to read, and it's here for those who're far away who are interested in your well being/have compulsive empathy. :D

Jul. 12th, 2007 04:49 am (UTC)
I've had it from the other side, they asked me to move out. They helped me move and got their friends to help and it was surreal but I knew it was what they needed. And I haven't been able to move past it ever since.

Maybe If I had even used one inch of teenage angst I might have made more progress.

Doesn't matter what side of the world, what side of the situation or what age you are - it sucks, it hurts.

Jul. 12th, 2007 05:48 am (UTC)
*gentle hugs*
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Jul. 13th, 2007 09:08 am (UTC)
Harry Potter...
According to the cinema the performance finishes at 12.10, so there should be time for archery afterwards.

Can you let me know if you want tickets asap as I'll book them at lunch or as soon as I hear back from you.

See you tongiht for food stuffs :)
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Jul. 13th, 2007 10:28 am (UTC)
Re: Harry Potter...
Tickets brought. Meet you outside the cinema about 9.20.

Last time I was at the cinema they had increased security and were doing spot bag checks, etc, so I doubt they'd let you in with a bow :p
Jul. 12th, 2007 07:46 am (UTC)
you did well choosing interpol.

b x
Jul. 12th, 2007 09:30 am (UTC)
Hey that's what LJ is for - to share with others what's going on and how you feel. I really hope the next few days/weeks/months aren't too bad for you emotionally, and that you can remain bouyant in the face of it all.

And don't hesitate to let people know how you feel!
Jul. 12th, 2007 10:09 am (UTC)
it's not teenage angst..
its' adult processing of a relationship transformation.


We're here for you :)

Don't censor yourself.
Jul. 12th, 2007 10:39 am (UTC)
"I hate break ups but break ups when living with your partner are even harder as a) you have to watch them leave... also harder because to live together is a big commitment and your feelings are even closer than just dating."

Understanding that situation and offering sympathies, Angus and it's not teen angst. This is what LJ is for!

If it's any consolation, you and she seem to still be very good friends and the door isn't completely shut I suspect. Harder is breaking up with a live-with partner when someone moving out is financial suicide for both and other ppl get in the firing line.
Jul. 12th, 2007 12:11 pm (UTC)
I've just got to get myself sorted with a job and all the other ideas that seem more realistically achievable here in Leicester with the support of my friends and networked acquaintances. :S
Jul. 12th, 2007 01:39 pm (UTC)
Angst away, its what this is for (apparently anyway :-)

Hugs to both of you anyway, tough week.
Jul. 12th, 2007 02:29 pm (UTC)
I'm so sorry! :-( I've been through plenty of break-ups, and it never gets easier.

I hate break ups but break ups when living with your partner are even harder

N didn't want us to move in together for that very reason. I've only done the breakup-with-SO-sharing-living-quarters once, and it does indeed suck hugely. :-(
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