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Brooding

Been thinking about kids and having a really broody "I want to have a little baby Angoo' type of morning.

I guess it's better to have that at times like these where I'm not in the position to go and do something about it.

The danger comes when you have these moments and are in a relationship. This will pass fairly quickly, the other would take 18+ years to move on!

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meaningrequired
Oct. 29th, 2007 10:47 am (UTC)
I'm really glad men feel this way too sometimes :) some would have you believe they never do.
eryx_uk
Oct. 29th, 2007 01:38 pm (UTC)
Some of us do. I've been living that broody feeling for several years now, but seem stuck in the "habitual but not my choice" singleness. :(
mrmmarc
Oct. 29th, 2007 10:47 am (UTC)
(shudders at the words 'Little Baby Angoo'- for various reasons)


(that is all)
lenfant_de_jeu
Oct. 29th, 2007 11:38 am (UTC)
I'm so glad you noted the lifetime commitment. I HATE women who have kids for themselves.

:D
imagnocean
Oct. 29th, 2007 11:56 am (UTC)
*hugs*

awww... little Angoos :D
saffrongraphics
Oct. 29th, 2007 12:53 pm (UTC)
Such a pity that it's viewed as a danger. Would you say you've not been in a relationship in the past where you'd have welcomed a Baby Angoo with a particular woman, even knowing what you do know?

And yes, 18+ years is the point. And not just 18+ plus years of responsibility to the Baby Angoo, but 18+ years of contact with a woman who you may not really want to be with after far fewer years than that.

All the men I've ever been close to have been utterly terrified of having children, or have had them accidentally and been deeply traumatized by this. I'm terrified of ending up pregnant without a good chance the father will make a commitment (hopefully to me as well as a child).

[siiiigh] Mind-numbing topic.
angusabranson
Oct. 29th, 2007 12:55 pm (UTC)
**Would you say you've not been in a relationship in the past where you'd have welcomed a Baby Angoo with a particular woman, even knowing what you do know?**

Definietly yes. Plus if that had happened there would have been a very high chance we'd probably still be together now.
angusabranson
Oct. 29th, 2007 12:56 pm (UTC)
As in yes, there has been someone in the past I would have been perfectly happy having a child with.
saffrongraphics
Oct. 29th, 2007 08:33 pm (UTC)
Oh, **sniff**. That's actually really sad. :(
angusabranson
Oct. 29th, 2007 09:24 pm (UTC)
Not really.

I'm very glad of all my relationships and don't look back at any of them with regret.

The only regrets I usually have are those people I could have had relatiionships with but for some reason didn't.

There is no use regretting somethign which was really enjoyable and fun. Things come to an end sometimes. Doesn't diminish what there was.

Both parties move on to other things and continue to grow as people through their experiences. There are 6 billion people on the planet at present, it'd be very blind and narrow minded to think there was only ever one Mr or Mrs Right for each of us.

I've been lucky enough to have known some absolutely fantastic girls, and I hope to know one or two more in my life. One day I will hopefully settle down when I meet someone and we both click and it works in all departments. Then a few years later when everything is on track I hope to have some baby Angoo's or Angette's.

No sadness about that.

Just opportunities, experience and a lot of very fond memories :)
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crookedmonkey
Oct. 29th, 2007 02:21 pm (UTC)
But a little one with your hair would be soooo cute!
angusabranson
Oct. 29th, 2007 02:24 pm (UTC)
And by the looks of your User Icon - also yours curly-locks! :p
crookedmonkey
Oct. 29th, 2007 02:38 pm (UTC)
Ha! cheeky! so if all else fails then we can have a kid with the square root of curly.
alexmatt
Oct. 29th, 2007 04:37 pm (UTC)
Arrived from Whitby less than 5 mins ago and you already managed to freak me out... you are good. But yeah, the curly hair of a mini "Angoo-Becky" would be very cute, but just evil....
crookedmonkey
Oct. 29th, 2007 04:43 pm (UTC)
that was almost a compliment. hope u got back with no probs. took us forever. thought danny was going to blow a blood vessel.

i would never make an evil baby. just a misunderstood one. Angus - evil incarnate.
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